Thursday, 11 July 2013

The A to Z of SUCCESS.


A : Aspiration , Ambition
B : Belief in Self
C:  Communication Skills, Compassion
D:  Dedication
E:  Enthusiasm
F:  Fortitude
G:  Genuineness
H:  Humility, Hard work
I:   Integrity
J:   (Being) Just & Fair
K:  Knowledge
L :  Luck
M : Modesty
N :  Negotiation Ability
O:   Optimism, Objectivity
P:   Perseverance, Preparation
Q:  Quality Focus
R:  Respect for Others and Self
S:   Sensitivity
T:  Trustworthiness
U:  Uprightness
V:  Value for Values
W: Willingness to learn from failures
Y:  Youthful mind
Z:  Zeal

Dear friends, any better ideas? Please give feedback to latha68@gmail.com 
 

THE 5A PRINCIPLE TO HAPPINESS


Dear friends, This framework is the outcome of the thoughts which rushed into my mind and my experiments with my self during my healing phase after a brain tumour surgery on May 21, 2011. I penned it down on August 8, 2011 after the last radiation therapy session.
THE 5A PRINCIPLE TO HAPPINESS :):):):)
 
1A
ASK
When   we  need something from someone, please ask very clearly what we want.Pl write it down and proof read before signing off .
This is probably the ROLE OF PRAYER when we ask the Almighty something.
Caution: Be reasonable in what we ASK. and be prepared to work for it. Ask oneself  if we really deserve it and answer this question honestlyJ
 
2A
ACCEPT
Humbly Accept what we get in return. Do not crib or evaluate here.
3A
APPRECIATE
Appreciate what we get and let the Giver know that we appreciate it.
4A
ACKNOWLEDGE
Acknowledge what we receive by giving something  in return. Otherwise it becomes a parasitic relationship and will not   be sustainable.
5A
APOLOGISE
The moment  we sense we are at fault for something, gear up the courage to Aplogise clearly to the concerned person.
The ability to say SORRY is a major source to eliminate waste and keep the Happiness in our life eternally.

 This could be the 5A principle of HAPPINESS in our life. JJJJJ

Try it out if you want to test it and do share your experience/(s) with me :

 Email id:  latha_l@spjimr.org

Tuesday, 9 July 2013

ON GIVING


On GIVING :

Nature, and its constituents like flora and fauna and other natural phenomena are all wired to GIVEJ A tree gives shade, its flowers and fruits during its life time and gives itself to nature after death! The food chain has a Giving Chain!!! With the Humans simply sitting at the top!!!!  The Giving process here is part of Nature’s DNA and it is always out of default and not out of choice!

The human species is fortunate to have been gifted with the ability to think, the ability to choose, the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and the ability to laugh. Indeed a human being  who is aware of these endowments and consciously deploys these in his/her living, will find success and happiness. Sharing or Giving to the deserving,  is also an ability exclusively gifted only to the human species.

Those with resources in abundance of more than what they need to live, have but two choices, “GIVING”  part of the surplus to the needy or simply hoarding it selfishly with themselves. However, if Giving were easy,  the world would have been a much better place today. It probably is a good topic for researchers to study the DNA, attributes and traits of
 a. those human being to whom “GIVING” comes very easily without any extrinsic motivation,
 b. those to whom “GIVING”  comes from extrinsic motivation like tax benefits and
 c. those to who can Give but just don’t Give!!!

Further, Giving money or other material resources for a cause is probably a much easier option than Giving TIME, because the responsibility in the former ends with signing the cheque! However Giving TIME to a cause is a need in today’s world. The values of caring and sharing and  investing  one’s time for a cause requires high level of commitment, passion and determination. The currency here is TIME, Giving Quality TIME to those in need of it.  It is the need of the hour, when the gap between the haves and the have-nots, is widening and is the major cause of increasing instances of crime in society, across the world.

A better tomorrow, a better world will be possible not only by improvement in technology or by sharing surplus wealth, but also by investing Time and Patience with the underprivileged and disseminating the HOPE FOR A BETTER Life for every member of the human species. Education systems in their content and process may include sensitivising students to living lives which make this Green Planet a better living place for generations to come and ensure the healthy longevity of the human species in the Universe. It is not only the onus or responsibility of Governments and Commercial Corporations to make this happen. It is the responsibility of every human being to appreciate their purpose on this Planet and contribute their bit towards making this Planet a better home for all its stakeholders for a long time to come.

Prof.Latha Pradeep Nair [Maiden Name: Latha Lakshminarayanan]

March 23, 2013

Friday, 5 July 2013

Questions from the next generation to this generation

Questions of the next generation to this generation.

1. Will we have safe air to breathe?
2. Will we have safe water for our needs?
3. Will we have a conducive climate for living healthily?
4. Will we have enough natural resources to meet our needs?
5. Will we be safe within the boundaries of our nation as well as beyond?
6. Will we have good memories to pass on to the future generations?
7. Will we inherit a peaceful Planet to bequeath it to the future generations?
8. O Policy Makers of this generation, we request you to answer these questions and help us feel secure about our future and the future of the generations to follow.........
9. People, Planet and Peace  can be secured and nourished and sustained...only if Policy and Practice appreciate the need for this and formulate and implement Policies in the right Perspective to Preserve the home of mankind for a long time to come.
10. Lets Promise ourselves to help achieve the objective mentioned in 9 above and the others in points 1 to 8 above...by doing whatevever we can right from NOW:)

Thank you.

Shankari L
Age 13
India